from the mind of critic-11/5/16

From the mind of critic: “If we honestly believe that if we want something done right we have to do it ourselves, do we honestly believe that somebody else will do that same thing worse? Have we been hurt and let down by so many other people on purpose and not, that we’ve lost faith in humanity and we’re floating around trying to do as much as we can for ourselves before our short time is up? Or have we not fully allowed ourselves to fully open upto the world and all its possibilities, so we don’t see all the people that can help us, and so we think we have to do it all, which causes us to spin out of control because we see all the millions of things we could be doing, and it freaks us out? Many time when we’re not used to doing things for our own betterment, we think others should do them, then we get let down when they don’t. Maybe we need to do some things for ourselves, and ask for help on others. Maybe being all one way or all the other, is what got us in this mess in the first place. Maybe finding what we can do for us and finding out what others can do for us, is how we find out what we can do for others, which is how we discover that balance will keep us motivated. Maybe through that balance is how we find out doing for us, is how we do for others. We all wanna succeed, love and be loved. We all wanna feel like we count and that we matter. Do we have to do for us, yes. Do we have to let others do for us, yes. Do we have to use ourselves as an example to prove to others that they can have faith in humnaity, because we do? There is no better feeling than overcoming adversity, or acheiving a long term goal. We simply must remember tht if we shun help from the world, success won’t come to us. We allow success, by allowing the world to help us 🙂