from the mind of critic-11/17/16

From the mind of critic: “If we all wanna love and be loved, do we always find it the same way? Do we have to completely have to give up on it, and think it’s never gonna happen, befiore we open up enough to let it in? Do we have to reach a point where even thinking about the love we don’t have causes so much pain we wanna cry, before we say screw it, which also opens us up enough to let it in? Or is it all just chaos like life itself, and we have no control over any of it, except how kind we are to ourselves? As we get older, many of us will have kids and families of our own, carrying on the lineage that our parents may or may not have handed down to us. For those of us who are single, we can see all of these relationships going on around us and wonder when it’s gonna be our time. It can be hard to see all these people that seem to have found that person. Once we realize that it’s better to be in no relationship than to be in a bad one, we’ll see that maybe we haven’t found that relationship yet, because we aren’t willing to settle for one of those bad relationships. Maybe we’re looking for something real, because we know the soul, spirit and heart connection involved, and we aren’t willing to waste our time on anything less. Lonliness can be hard, especially if we let it get the best of us. We might even know somebody who we have that heart connection with, but some reason it wasn’t the right time. What we must never do is lose sight of that connection, and give it the full benefit of the doubt. If it doesn’t work out, atleast we know we tried. Some of us haven’t found love yet, and some of us have, but haven’t been allowed to let it fully blossom. Love will happen, and chances are it will be greater than anything we ever imagined” 🙂